If you believe in soulmates, you probably believe in love at first sight too. Love is a powerful feeling whose effects are beyond time, distance, and society’s constraints. Sometimes, it takes time to realize you love someone. Other times, you know that person is the one as soon as you see her. If you never experienced love, it’s probably hard to convince you that love at first sight can lead to a lifetime relationship. Nor if you experienced love at first sight and have been disappointed. Let’s focus on the question “Is love, at first sight real?” and let’s find together how you can maintain such a relationship.
What is love at first sight?
Love at first sight is the phenomenon of instant falling in love with someone seen for the first time. How can a person feel such an explosion of emotions for a stranger? In love at a first smile, words won’t be needed. Euphoria takes over and you suddenly lose control of your feelings.
We fall in love at first sight because we feel attracted to that person. Firstly, we fell in love with the physical aspect. It is the one that captures our attention. That’s why the first impression matters. Mostly, when it comes to love. Then, once you discover each other’s characters you will see whether you are compatible or not.
The most beautiful love, at first sight, is when you fall for each other at the same time. Otherwise, it may be painful for one of you. But take the risk. There is no way back once Cupid’s arrow hit anyway.
How do you know if love at first sight is real?
Firstly, you will feel butterflies in your stomach. This feeling is a mix of excitement, fear, sadness, and happiness at the same time. You dream a lot about that person and imagine scenarios about your future together. Every time you will see that person, you’ll feel weak on the knees.
Secondly, you think about that person all the time. If you keep thinking about the person you’ve seen for the first time a week ago, it is obvious that you fell in love with that person.
You miss that person. When you love someone is so easy to observe. Unless you really know how to master the art of hiding it. It is almost impossible to mask your feelings. For example, when you care for someone, you always seek reasons to be around that person. You don’t feel in a good mood if that person misses from there.
Also, you find your crush very attractive. It’s like they are the center of the Universe and you cannot see anyone else better than her. Every time you are around that person, it will be very hard to take your eyes off her.
In short, love at first sight is probably something you saw only in movies, but it is something that uncontrollably happens in day-to-day life. Also, if you are a hopeless romantic, you may be still waiting to fall in love out of nowhere. Take the risk and allow yourself to feel such an experience. Have you ever experienced love at first sight? Tell us more about your experience in the comment section.