Relationships are complicated. Mostly after a long period of living together. One day you love each other like never before, the other day you behave as you are the worst enemies. But that’s what keeps a relationship spicy. What really matters is to end the day in each other’s arms every day. You can experience the kind of love you see in the movies if you choose to love your partner every day, even on bad days when you cannot love yourself. As Ms. and Mrs. Smith’s love story, there are countless examples of couples who fight all day long, but they won’t resist a day apart.
Only love and other drugs….
Love is addictive. Once you are infected you cannot cure. Nothing and nobody can destroy this feeling, nor death, distance, or people. But we like to complicate it. When the world seems beautiful than ever, you sabotage your romantic date with a mean remark. It’s good to be candid about your feelings. Regularly opening to each other and confessing what you don’t like about your partner is okay. But pay attention to how you express yourself. Your words may hurt your partner’s feelings. For example, instead of repeatedly blaming your partner that he drinks too many beers, drink with him next time. Just kidding, that’s not the right answer. Have a serious talk about your preferences and what you would like to do with him. Love is about accepting each other’s flaws as easily as we embrace the qualities.
Choose to love your partner every day
Despite all the difficulties and obstacles that stand in your way, remember why you love each other. Take a look at how long you’ve come together and remembered the beautiful moments spent together. I’m sure that you still think about your relationship every time you hear your song playing on the radio. From now on, wake up in the morning and decide to feel affection towards your partner. Choosing your partner every day means more than the words “until death does us apart”. Treat your partner with tender care in times when he feels lost, communicate more when you have a problem, and offer sweet affection with regularity. These are the three keys that will keep your bond tight and help you overcome the daily issues that occur. After you will do so, all you have to do is to watch your marriage light up with love and fun.
Love is more than a feeling that simply happens to you. Love is a decision. When you say “I love you”, you make a promise that you will stick together no matter how hard it will be. Behaving in a loving manner shows appreciation.
Once upon a time, your partner was your best friend, your soulmate, and your favorite person. So, choose to love your partner every day! Even on days when he stinks and he is incredibly annoying.